Life of an English Hen

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Memoirs with a Geisha



Have you ever read Memoirs of a Geisha, or seen the film?

Tonight I spent the evening in such company, which was at the same time both 'normal' and magical. Normal because I was in a tatami room, like in my house here, in my city of Kyoto, with people mostly about my age. However it was magical as we were invited to see a glimpse of the life of this old-age tradition. Our geisha was in fact a 'maiko san', which means she is in her teens. Her work every day is to practice her skills (making conversation with a whole range of people, dancing, playing the shamisen (a stringed guitar-like instrument), and others) and then entertain her guests in the evenings by looking beautiful and mysterious, serving drinks, a meal, leading games (as in the video), dancing and other arts. And she really did have a skill, despite being only 17, of smiling and looking so beautiful and genuine when she did. I imagine though, with having to sleep with her head on a wooden pillow so as to protect her hairstyle and make-up which must last for one whole week, only having two days off per month, not having access to computers, the internet or a mobile phone, and entertaining people usually much older than her and probably much more drunk, it must be hard to be so nice all the time in public. Her 'okaasan' (= mother; used in this context of her seniors in the tea house who care for her and teach her) is hovering in the background, picking up the conversation where need be, and giving permission for her to enter the room or leave the house.

It really was a magical and extraordinary experience. At the start I rather looked down on the profession, as being the servant of others, but as the evening went on, I realised that relaxation is a vital part of life, as is socialising, and this geisha job-come-lifestyle is designed to encourage both for people. I'd still love for these people in the hidden parts of Kyoto's life to come to know and follow Jesus though - imagine how it might benefit them, transform their conversational lives with clients, and how the rest of Japan and the world might hear about it!

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Away from home

I love the feeling of being away from home. This week I have stayed in a variety of accomodation, with some special people. Today, I am enjoying my first experience of a Japanese `business hotel`. It is just 5000 yen (25 pounds) a night, including a lovely self-service breakfast plus a tiny little booth where you can use the internet (for free), in which I am now sat - with the door open (until the receptionist tells me to close it) as it really is tiny (and hot).

I have had a wicked time this last week, on holiday. With Mirabelle, we hitch-hiked, camped, found our way to Shikoku`s highest mountain (Mt Tsurugi san) and got to the summit, crossed over three vine bridges (made of branches over big gorges - see me crossing one in the photo!), ate soba and udon (the region`s specialities) and just generally enjoyed the whole exciting experience. As Mirabelle said, when we were walking on the roadside in the dark hoping for a lift to save us walking the 30 km home, and I asked her if she was scared, `No, it`s not often in life we get to do this`.

And so here I am in Kouchi, where we arrived last night, and I decided I`d like to try, for the first time in my life, to walk the streets and find a hotel just for myself, rather than travel back to Mirabelle`s place at quite an inconvenient time for her. I will venture out soon, and explore the city a bit, but at the moment I need to rest, there is free internet, and it`s been raining since I woke up.

I also had a great time earlier in the week with Simon, visiting Tokushima. We stayed with some friends of a colleague, who were lovely and hospitable and whose lifestyle we both admired enormously. They seem to welcome people into thier house at all times of the day and night and also simply enjoy walking through this fun life together as a couple. I was not looking forward to staying there, as before arriving I felt it would be a burden of more small talk with people in Japan that I don` know, but instead it was a pleasure and one that was provided for us by God.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Things to Learn from Rakusei Church

Today I finished my four months of indigenous (Japanese) church placement at Rakusei Church. Let me relate what I have gained from being there.

First, a sense of freedom. I have seen this in the church members, from the first moment I met them. Many are divorced and have found the church in the last few years - they are not putting up a pretense with thier lives - they have come as broken people and been genuinely healed (it seems). The older members too, including the lady who was the starting member of that church, also beam with joy and freedom. They don't worry about what (not) to wear, and what (not) to do. If our newest Christian wants to go for a fag outside, he goes for a fag outside. If the daughter of one member turns up in the shortest shorts, with the past-self-harm scars on her arms not covered, no-one bats an eyelid. I like this - it's not about rules, it's about being family together.
And I could stop there.

But second, I have learnt about joy in the Lord. The pastor, Okumura sensei (sensei means pastor or teacher in Japanese), and his wife Michiyo sensei, always beam with energy. Nothing is to much trouble for them. And when really tired, Okumra sensei just missed the night of gospel choir to rest at home. These folk aren't 'martyrs' (in the bad sense of the word), these are people who are willingly choosing to look on the joyful side of life. They are light-hearted, rather than long-faced, even though I know they've dealt with sticky counsellng situations in the church. They like to try and hang around with church members. Which leads me on to...

Third, there is a sense of community. People work long hours in Japan, so the church's weekly schedule is light. That means on Sundays people choose to spend the whole day together - worship service, eating lunch, sitting on the floor chatting, making jewelery, drinking tea. They also sometimes socialise together, like going out to see band play, or something. Gospel choir is also social and it introduces people to the church, (as in the people, although also the building), before they come to 'church' as such.

Fourth, the time is maximised. Seeing as people are busy in the week, the church's leadership meetings take place after the service and before the lunch on Sundays, (not every week, maybe monthly). The time for new individuals to study the Bible with the Pastor is also Sunday afternoon; they slip into his office to chat while everyone else is still mingling in the next room. Practices for special church events are squeezed in after gospel choir on Thursday nights. English classes (while I was there), are held after the Sunday lunch. Basically this means people don't have to travel back and forth to the church; the pastors simply make use of the time they have with people rather than askng for more. And the service times also are geared for people: the first ervice is at 7am, so that those who have to work can come before work starts. The second service is at 10.30am. And the third, at 7.30pm, for those after work. There will also be a fourth in September, at 1.30pm, of contemporary worship, for those who can't be bothered to get up before mid-day on Sundays and so aren't at present even part of church.

Fifth, multiculturism is important. We tend to think, as missionaries, that we have to become 'indigenous' to relate the gospel credibly. True, this is what mission theory has been fighting for for years, and it's a great achievement that we now all finally beleive it. But in Japan, English language is still a novelty. In short, it's cool. The new 1.30pm service wil largely be English songs, even though there wilbe no native speakers in the church, as the pastor says Japanese young people cannot connect with God singing modern songs in Japanese about God: it just doesn't go together. There might be larger questions for how we can get around that, but in the meantime, let's put on some internationaly-flavoured events to draw people in!

Sixth, you cannot please everyone. I missed one church event for personal preference of something equally/more valuable that night, and that was kinda embaraassing, but that will sometimes be a choice we have to make without always being able to justify ourselves to everyone or even those most senior.

Seventh, Japanese pastors and Christians do use some different phrases in services and when praying compared to missionaries speaking Japanese, so it's important for new foreign workers like myself to learn in a Japanese-context when possible.

Eighth, when people are asked to introduce themselves when they've come to an event for the first time, the normal thing is for that person not to say anything personal about themselves other than their name, and instead just to relate how they came to know of the church event/group, thier (positive) impressions of it, and that they'll come back again if they can. (I in contrast made the mistake of giving a 5-minute personal introduction all about myself, before I was asked to sit down!)

Ninth, Japanese people won't necessarily invite you to thier house or out for coffee, as you are in a higher position than them being in church leadership, but maybe they would gladly accept an invitation if you issued it. Sadly I discovered this too late (from one of my Korean colleagues) so have never had a coffee out with anyone there, sob sob. Although finaly after four months, two people have asked for my phone number and said to come round, smile, (& mental reminder: must go!)

Tenth, babies can sleep anyway! (Why do British peole always rush home after the service, if not five minutes before the end, to feed the baby and put him to bed?!) The church members here just feed the babies while eating lunch with (and at) the church, and then lie the baby down on a cushion and he sleeps. Further to that, the children fit in and are an integral part of the church family. And with that, here's some of the church people!

Saturday, August 02, 2008

Live House

Today we in KPG (Kyoto Praise of Grace gospel choir) did another Live Performance, this time at the Saiin Music Festival. In fact, today at loads of locations across Kyoto there were live music performances all day - from a Starbucks venue to ours, which was in a rather grand kindergarten in a Shinto shrine, with a big stage - if you can imagine that - probably not!

We loved it, and I felt God leading me where to look in the songs, from praising him direct, to looking at the audience more. Only a few wrong notes but it was all pretty loud so I don't think anyone heard!

Afterwards I had my first experience of eating out with a big group of Japanese people who aren't students, (my other experiences being with the footballers, but they tended to be students). It was nice. And they taught me how to eat sushi properly! Here's a snapshot of geting ready beforehand, wih our choir director being the lady giving the big chuckle.


Here's immediately after the performance , back upstairs, when we were still looking nice and smart.


and here's letting our hair down later: